From Recipient to Giver: Mae Ruth’s Story

Mae Ruth’s niece is seated among the gifts from their family sponsor provided at Christmas

Mae Ruth and her family became recipients of The Box Project when she was just eleven years old. She grew up in Tallahatchie County, Mississippi and was raised on two different former slave plantations where her dad worked the fields.

Growing up, her family consisted of her mom, dad, two brothers and two sisters. Their starter home on the first plantation was a three-room shotgun house that had no indoor plumbing. Her parents slept in the front room where the heater was located, while she and her siblings shared the other bedroom; the girls shared one bed, and the boys shared the other. The last room in their house was the kitchen. Though they didn’t have much, they were happy. They eventually moved onto another plantation where they lived in a trailer. The trailer was an improvement from their shotgun house but after many years of living there, it became just as run-down and her dad didn’t make enough money to get everything that the family needed.

After some hard years, they were introduced to The Box Project by a social worker. Because Mae Ruth was the only one in the family that could write at the time, she filled out the application. From there they received their very first sponsor. Her biggest memories about her sponsors were during the holidays. She remembers several Christmases where the UPS truck backed up to their trailer with a truck full of boxes and would often come back the next day with another load of boxes. The family would get so many boxes full of gifts that it filled up their modest trailer and would take the children the whole day to open up everything. Their sponsor’s gifts included cloths, toys, books based on places that they wanted to travel, school supplies, and household items.

As recipient of The Box Project, the family had several sponsors and were very grateful for each one. Mae Ruth grew up and gave back to her community by serving with AmeriCorps, putting herself through college to become a teacher, and now working for an early learning alliance in her home county to encourage, enrich, and support elementary achievement. She credits The Box Project as one of the reasons she is the person she is today.

She tells people that if they have the chance to become part of The Box Project, then they should do it because it is a great opportunity that should not be taken for granted.

By Iyeshia Haynes, MDSC/AmeriCorps*Vista Member

The Box Project’s mission is to encourage and enrich the lives of families and individuals living in rural poverty by establishing meaningful relationships, promoting education, and offering material aid.

Participating in The Box Project’s “Family Match Program” supports our mission by getting the increasing number of families living in rural poverty the help they need to break the cycle of poverty and build a more secure and promising future for generations to come.